A dear friend asked me to marry her. Not a proposal, an ask to stand up the front and say the words while she married someone else. So I studied, sat assessments, dealt with the Attorney-General's Office, and became a legally registered celebrant, all for one specific woman I love. It started with one yes.

What if self-pleasure was more than just physical gratification? What if it was a practice of deep self-connection, a sacred ritual that brought you closer to yourself and something greater? In this post, we explore the intersection of sexuality and spirituality, reframing pleasure as an act of devotion, healing, and self-honouring.