Nikkiema Rai is a Somatic Sexologist, Self-Discovery Coach, and internationally recognized public speaker and workshop facilitator with over 8 years of experience.

Hey, I’m Nikkiema

If we haven’t met yet, let me tell you a little about myself—and if we have, here’s your reminder!

I’m a somatic sexologist, coach, and facilitator, and I’m here to help career driven women reconnect with themselves and never feel alone again. Think of me as your guide to slowing down, tuning in, and discovering the magic that’s already within you.

My approach? It’s a mix of science, embodiment, and a decent sprinkle of curiosity. I’ve immersed myself in tools like Somatics, NLP, Sexological Bodywork, and the Erotic Mysteries, which basically means I’ve got a treasure chest of ways to help you find connection, joy, and a sense of ease in your life.

This work isn’t about chasing perfection or ticking boxes—it’s about creating space for you. For your desires, your sensuality, and all those parts of yourself that might have gotten a little lost in the busyness of life.

I’ve had the honor of helping women reignite their spark, rediscover what truly lights them up, and feel deeply connected to themselves and their loved ones again. Watching someone shift from feeling stuck and overwhelmed to finding joy, ease, and excitement in their lives—it’s why I do what I do.

So, if you’ve ever thought, Is this it? Shouldn’t I feel more connected to myself and the people I love?, you’re in the right place. I’m here to remind you: you’re worth the time, the curiosity, and the care it takes to truly rediscover yourself.

Let’s take it slow—because slow is where the magic happens

  • Kareena | Philippines

    “Nikkiema is nothing short of amazing in leading me back into my being. I felt safe in her as she guided me through my deeper emotions that my body has stored for years and years. I was able to see why I was playing out a certain way because of the stuck emotions I was able to uncover, as we worked together. Her nurturing spirit helped me expand my view of the world, that brought me to a happier life. And she brought me back home to trust the innate knowledge of my own body.”

  • Kelsey | Australia

    Nikkiema caters to all - whether she be facilitating, holding space, or giving general support & guidance, she dos so with 100% authenticity and honesty. I have always felt fully seen and supported by Nikkiema, an no matter my concern, she has always shown up in such grounded presence that makes me feel so beautifully held and accepted.

  • Shannon | USA

    Working with Nikkiema is a truly profound experience. The gentle yet bold essence she possesses allowed me to move through the self pleasure practice with so much ease. I spent months trying to understand what integration means and i was baffled when it finally landed during my session with Nikkiema. I look forward to continuing sessions with her knowing that her guidance evokes powerful breakthroughs.

Nikkiema’s Self Discovery Approach for Effective Results

Nikkiema’s transformative approach empowers clients to reconnect with their Connection, establish Balance, and discover their Purpose.

By aligning these pillars, clients cultivate self-awareness, sustainable harmony, and intentional living, ultimately unlocking their Authentic Self—a state of feeling deeply known, grounded, and true to who they are.

    • Focus: Reconnecting with inner self and ability to relate genuinely to others.

    • Purpose: Help cultivate self-awareness, emotional connection, and a sense of belonging, starting within self and extending to relationships.

    • Impact: Experiences a sense of Inner Knowing, understanding self deeply and feeling more authentically connected in interactions.

    • Focus: Establishing sustainable routines and boundaries that allow to create harmony between career, family, and personal needs.

    • Purpose: Equip with practical strategies to prevent burnout, prioritize self, and manage energy effectively.

    • Impact: Achieves Grounded Ambition, pursuing goals with clarity and peace, allowing forward movement without compromising well-being

    • Focus: Helping uncover unique values and life direction, bringing meaning and intention to actions.

    • Purpose: Guide in discovering what truly brings satisfaction and aligning life around this purpose.

    • Impact: Builds Intentional Relationships with others, fostering connections that reflect true self and purpose, bringing authenticity into every interaction 

  • Ultimate Transformation: When Connection,

    Balance, and Purpose align there is an experiences of Authentic Self-a life where she feels deeply known, steady, and true to herself.

Uncover who you have always been